Dating someone with terminal cancer
You don't have "something wrong with you," you have terminal brain cancer.
If it were me I can't picture myself taking that diagnosis and going on a dating site, I think my energy would be better spent with family and friends I already had, and with meeting people through support groups (online and real-world) and activities related to my health.
It is a near certainty that I will expire before my children finish primary school.
In October 2012 I was diagnosed with advanced colon cancer, aged 34.
However, people often don’t know what to say to someone who has cancer.
Here are some tips to help you show your support: Take your cues from the person with cancer.
A little bug or a sniffle that might put you a bit under the weather could have serious repercussions for the health of a cancer patient. Radiation and chemotherapy play havoc with the senses. Sometimes, you need a hug, a bit of human warmth and contact to remind you that you’re not alone. When he said yes, I’d let him move towards me, and as firmly as he hugged me, I’d hug back, but just a bit softer. Hard to believe, but some cancers cause such deep-seated bone pain that even a too-firm yet loving squeeze of the hand is agony. The atheist cares for the sick because there is no greater service to humanity than to care for the sick.Carefully choosing what you say can help you show your support without being dismissive or avoiding the topic.For example, it is better to say, “I don’t know what to say” than to stop calling or visiting out of fear.Keep eye contact, listen attentively, and avoid distractions when talking.One important way to provide support is to share some silence without needing to drown it out with chatter. Make sure to acknowledge how difficult this experience is for your friend or family member.